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"Needs a change in her circumstances or in her rela..."
Your Existing Situation
Orderly, methodical, and self-contained. Needs the respect, recognition, and understanding of those close to her.
Yes, I am in a debate competition after all. I'm trying my hardest to be as structured and as systematic as I can be. The pressure for me to perfom is on, but so far my team mates have been so supportive it's almost unreal. Not only are those monkeys civilized, they are actually sympathetic as well. I enjoy being a part of the team and I honestly feel that I am gaining their respect and understanding. I am very thankful for that.
Your Stress Sources
The situation is regarded as threatening or dangerous. Outraged by the thought that she will be unable to achieve her goals and distressed at the feeling of helplessness to remedy this. Over-extended and feels beset, possibly to the point of nervous prostration.
Yes, we are contending for the championship and right now, we are not in the position to make any stupid mistakes. I feel myself having the inferiority complex, I'm trying hard to convince myself that I do deserve the spot in the first team and I am capable of being a spectacular debater. I worry that my best would not be good enough to give the team the win. However, people around me are constantly telling me that I do have what it takes to make it through and somehow, that helps.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Willing to participate and to allow herself to become involved, but tries to fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension.
Able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity.
Conditions are such that she will not let herself become intimately involved without making mental reservations.
Yes, I am being non-confrontational at times. As much as I am participating in discussion and talks with both sides of conflicting ideas, I rather not get myself involved directly in the situation. I have more things to worry about like grabbing the win.
Here it is again, for the third time, maybe I seriously should be getting some.
And yet here is the explanation. I am wary of making the same mistakes all over again.
Your Desired Objective
Needs a change in her circumstances or in her relationships which will permit relief from stress. Seeking a solution which will open up new and better possibilities and allow hopes to be fulfilled.
That's pretty obvious, isn't it. I do feel that a change is in order. The question is, will it be a good one and will it be good enough to be the best.
Your Actual Problem
Agitation, unpredictability, and irritation accompanying depleted vitality and intolerance of further demands have all placed her in a position in which she feels menaced by her circumstances. Feeling powerless to remedy this by any action of her own, she is desperately hoping that some solution will provide a way of escape.
Yes, I am frantically searching for a way to be less agitated, I am tired of thinking that I don't deserve what I have now, when the possibility of it is more clear than ever before just because someone said that I am a good debater with expectations of becoming a great one. Yes, I do feel insecure but perhaps I should just learn to ignore it and be more positive.
What happened to the ambitious, optimistic and sure of herself, Ana?
She was away, but she'll be coming back soon.
Speaking of the she-devil.. here she is.